Your Business Isn’t Your Baby: The Dangerous Trap Entrepreneurs Fall Into

Entrepreneurs and work-life balance

For years, I treated my business like my baby. I poured everything into it—time, energy, even emotions. Sound familiar? The problem is, businesses aren’t babies. They don’t love you back. And if you don’t set boundaries, they will consume your entire life.

The difference between a healthy business owner and a burned-out entrepreneur is simple: ownership versus obsession.

Signs Your Business is Controlling You

  • You can’t take a day off without feeling guilty.
  • Your identity is tied to your company’s success.
  • You prioritize business needs over family time—constantly.

How to Take Back Control

  1. Set Business Hours (And Actually Stick to Them)
    Block out family time just like you would a client meeting. If it’s on the calendar, it’s non-negotiable.

  2. Build Systems That Work Without You
    If your business crumbles when you step away, you don’t have a business—you have a job. Fix that.

  3. Redefine Success
    Success isn’t just growth metrics. If your kids barely see you, is your business truly a success?

I learned the hard way that treating your business like a child makes you a hostage. Build something that works for you, not the other way around.

I reside in Scottsdale, Arizona with my wife Rachel and our two daughters. As the Founder and CEO of StringCan Interactive, my eighth venture, I lead a strategic digital marketing agency also based in Scottsdale. At StringCan, we are dedicated to helping businesses that aim to improve people's lives expand their digital influence and reach.

Over the years, through successes and setbacks, I've discovered that our professional achievements are deeply intertwined with our personal happiness. True success emerges when our home life flourishes, creating a foundation that allows our business endeavors to thrive. It's a powerful insight that every entrepreneur should embrace.

Inspired by my own journey and the challenges faced by many business leaders, I designed a 4-day family retreat in 2015 to address these pivotal balance issues. The profound impact of this retreat on my life and the lives of others led me to author "FAMILY 2.0: Harness Business Principles to Reboot Your Family in 4 Days." This book offers practical steps for entrepreneurs looking to enhance their family dynamics, thereby reinforcing the strength and stability of their businesses.

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